The downside of growing up with bleeding episodes is that it becomes your “normal” and you no longer distinguish what is suppose to be the “real” normal. I guess that is true with Star, as is with many others like her.
I have been like that too, believing that “normal” varies from person to person. My “normal” is having very heavy menses on the first three days that at times, I cannot go out of the house for fear of “flooding” the streets. Of course, that’s an exaggeration. But it’s too heavy that it’s too risky to go out.
Star and I always “quarrel” about keeping track of her menses. I insist that she crosses out the calendar the day it starts. This will make it easier for me to monitor her. As our rule of thumb, we’re suppose to infuse after a week of heavy menses. But she almost always forgets.